There comes a point in everyone's life when we hesitate to face the change or accept the reality. The time when we are in a state of either shock or we are overcome by our deserted mind that, at times we do not accept what is in front of us even if it is the truth. The things that happen around which we are not prepared for or which we are not ready to accept are basically the things that tend to affect our lives the most. We keep denying with the thought that what ever happens, it happens with a reason. Sudden falls that we come across are the most fragile moments that actually tear us apart. the reason why we do not accept what has happened is just because our mind and heart don't agree on the situation. And this is where we tend to ignore the reality and live in our own masked world where these small distortions are not allowed. The most commonly ignored realities start right away from the first failure that we face and continues till that moment when we are not ready to believe that everything is actually ending. In this voyage we come across several changes and go through enormous pain and happiness as well. And its not just that we don't accept the good things as well. The mistakes, the rudeness, the feelings and emotions, the day from when we had a feeling for someone and the day when someone broke our heart. Relationships, Family, Friends not just these almost everything in our lives have a reality of its own that we may have per sieved or we might still be unaware of the reality. This is a very important aspect of life. We need to accept the change, we need to accept the reality. Whatever it may be but it does exists and we cannot ignore it. We keep ourselves in illusion by ignoring these changes and realities. The bravest decision could sometimes prove to be the biggest foolishness. The realities that stand in front of us are meant to be there. Only we need to be ready to accept them because ignoring them is never an option. Accepting it at least gives you the courage and confidence to deal with your fear and also builds a sense of responsibility towards your actions and words that you need to be concerned about. Facing the facts and accepting them with a spirit is what we lack today. Experiences shared by a few say that people with a very narrow outlook tend to take it as an insult, instead of working and accepting the real fact that is in front of them. They start either bragging about the reality that they haven't done anything like that or something like this never happened. The day we start accepting what is real and has happened, that will be the day when things will get sorted out. Stop living like a frog in a well. Its true "just take a left turn from your home and the world starts." Get out of your conscious mind that nothing ever goes wrong and stop running from realities. Take whatever comes your way in a optimistic way and make it work right if it is not. We never get less that what we need nor more than what we deserve. Trying and rejecting that real facts is nothing but keeping yourself in darkness which will push you deeper and make you weaker. The world will do what it is best at; 'just laugh at you'. Do not expect a hand for help, it will never show up. Be your own strength, accept what is in front and real, deal with it and there you are with the most dependable person in your life. :) for you can't escape reality. No one will ever believe in you unless you do it yourself. Accept the reality, because it is meant to be...!
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